As a stay voter, the worst outcome would be ignoring the referendum. People are sick of hearing it here both leave and stay campaigners. We've heard enough. Democratic process must continue, Scotland may gain independence but whether they like it or not the country has spoken!
We will get on with it. There will always be sour grapes but we've had worse and things will be better.
There is no idiocy on the part of the British people as you say. The country voted by majority on what they thought was best for the country. Who are you or anyone else to say that's wrong? Countries act in their best interest all the time why not England/Wales and their countryfolk?
The EU tried to grab to much power and it has fucked everything. Hungary, the UK, Slovakia, Slovenia, Greece - all becoming rebellious in their own ways.
The EU leaders didn't help either with their threats(Juncker et al) the British people do not respond well to threats and rightly so.