Sexual attraction is just part of the price we pay for being animals that reproduce with genetically altered offspring. If that attraction didn't exist, we wouldn't reproduce. There is no way around that. It's a biological imperative.
true, but I can notice that a woman is sexually attractive without groping them or ejaculating on them. I feel slightly invasive if I simply take a second glance at someone.
I don't think biology has anything to say about whether the either party has to enjoy the process at all, just that it has to be done. After all there are many species where the male knows he's likely to be killed and eaten during sex and he still takes part.
I did find one thing about her story disturbing. After being ejaculated on she went home and had a bath. Surely a shower would have been a much better option.
Sexual attraction is just part of the price we pay for being animals that reproduce with genetically altered offspring. If that attraction didn't exist, we wouldn't reproduce. There is no way around that. It's a biological imperative.
true, but I can notice that a woman is sexually attractive without groping them or ejaculating on them. I feel slightly invasive if I simply take a second glance at someone.
I don't think biology has anything to say about whether the either party has to enjoy the process at all, just that it has to be done. After all there are many species where the male knows he's likely to be killed and eaten during sex and he still takes part.
I did find one thing about her story disturbing. After being ejaculated on she went home and had a bath. Surely a shower would have been a much better option.
Some people find baths more comforting, even if showers are more efficient at getting clean. That was an emotional grime she was trying to wash away.
I like baths too but the thing that bothered me was: some of the sperm might have still been alive.
Not after a hot bath. Hot tubs kill sperm.
But I don't think she was thinking about that at the time. She was reacting emotionally, not rationally.