I don't think biology has anything to say about whether the either party has to enjoy the process at all, just that it has to be done. After all there are many species where the male knows he's likely to be killed and eaten during sex and he still takes part.
I did find one thing about her story disturbing. After being ejaculated on she went home and had a bath. Surely a shower would have been a much better option.
I don't think biology has anything to say about whether the either party has to enjoy the process at all, just that it has to be done. After all there are many species where the male knows he's likely to be killed and eaten during sex and he still takes part.
I did find one thing about her story disturbing. After being ejaculated on she went home and had a bath. Surely a shower would have been a much better option.
Some people find baths more comforting, even if showers are more efficient at getting clean. That was an emotional grime she was trying to wash away.
I like baths too but the thing that bothered me was: some of the sperm might have still been alive.
Not after a hot bath. Hot tubs kill sperm.
But I don't think she was thinking about that at the time. She was reacting emotionally, not rationally.