No trap. I just like to here others perspectives on topics like this. My thought is that family is more important but, as with you, we don't get to pick our family.
Thank you for your response.
For some maybe family is important. I ended up telling most of mine off and disowning them. Me son, wife, mum and a few of the stranger ones like me is all I talk to now. They others make my blood boil and that is one thing I do not need right now. If your family is good to you and yours then keep em, if they try to scuttle ya throw them over the side.