I change what I use. Right now, as an example, I especially like variations on the world "Fuck" and will be borrowing your "fucksticks." I tend to say" Aw Fuck it" and "For Fuck's sake." I don't say words i see as put downs on other people like whore,cunt, nigga/nigger, retard, fag/faggot. I do not curse at people but at situations.