Speaking from experience, I can tell you that there are women out there who don't think child-bearing is the penultimate purpose of their life! I find it kind of demeaning to assume that all women want to be relegated to baby-rearing, to be honest. Not to speak ill of your family, I'm sure it doesn't come from a place of malice!
I think it's important to be upfront with anyone you're in a serious relationship with about your opinions on this issue (or any issue, really). The secret to any relationship is communication, and as long as you agree on the basics, pretty much anything else can be talked out!
Oh ya, I call them out on it. I know they are coming from a place of worrying about me so I try now give them too hard a time about it.
I also completely agree about the communications part and I know I'll find my SO someday :) plus I would never want someone who really wants a child to give that up because of me so I would hope my partner to feel the same about pressuring me into having one. It's just one of those things that can unfortunately indicate a relationship that needs to go seperate ways.
Edit: I just thought I must point out my amusement I'm feeling at the moment as I have to constantly click Parent to see my own comment which yours is responding to. :D
Speaking from experience, I can tell you that there are women out there who don't think child-bearing is the penultimate purpose of their life! I find it kind of demeaning to assume that all women want to be relegated to baby-rearing, to be honest. Not to speak ill of your family, I'm sure it doesn't come from a place of malice!
I think it's important to be upfront with anyone you're in a serious relationship with about your opinions on this issue (or any issue, really). The secret to any relationship is communication, and as long as you agree on the basics, pretty much anything else can be talked out!
Oh ya, I call them out on it. I know they are coming from a place of worrying about me so I try now give them too hard a time about it.
I also completely agree about the communications part and I know I'll find my SO someday :) plus I would never want someone who really wants a child to give that up because of me so I would hope my partner to feel the same about pressuring me into having one. It's just one of those things that can unfortunately indicate a relationship that needs to go seperate ways.
Edit: I just thought I must point out my amusement I'm feeling at the moment as I have to constantly click Parent to see my own comment which yours is responding to. :D