Author of article seems to think that what happens in Amsterdam happens in the rest of NL. I can tell you this much, as direct as Amsterdammers are, most Dutch people aren't as direct or as obnoxious. In that regard, Amsterdam is a world all to itself.
Yes, the Dutch are more direct (or perhaps rude) compared to other cultures but a "that's none of your business" reply is usually respected.
And beating around the bush has never helped anyone.
But as for what the author is grappling with;
No I am not in a Whatsapp group with my neighbours. In fact, only one knows my name, and that's because they are so nice to collect packages for me, when I'm not home.
I don't expect others to speak my language, but I'm willing to help anyone who's trying to learn.
And no I have never been asked to join my colleagues in a sauna. (And I would decline too, if I were)
Author of article seems to think that what happens in Amsterdam happens in the rest of NL. I can tell you this much, as direct as Amsterdammers are, most Dutch people aren't as direct or as obnoxious. In that regard, Amsterdam is a world all to itself.
Yes, the Dutch are more direct (or perhaps rude) compared to other cultures but a "that's none of your business" reply is usually respected. And beating around the bush has never helped anyone.
But as for what the author is grappling with;
No I am not in a Whatsapp group with my neighbours. In fact, only one knows my name, and that's because they are so nice to collect packages for me, when I'm not home.
I don't expect others to speak my language, but I'm willing to help anyone who's trying to learn.
And no I have never been asked to join my colleagues in a sauna. (And I would decline too, if I were)
Only used the article to try describe how most people see me, people close to me see me in total different light.
One thing I do love, and respect is the directness of Dutch people, although I think they can't handle their loss in football :D
Thxs for comment.
With loss in football, do you mean the passing of Johan Cruijff? (He passed away today)
As for "Oranje" not qualifying for the EC, I rejoiced when that happened. Finally a year without orange crap everywhere.
So sad indeed, I love all art, and artists, pains the world to lose one every time.