Yeah. I do want my partner to want to be themselves and be my partner. That's a great point.

I don't view non-monogamy as amoral or immoral either. I view it as a compatibility issue. I'm not sure what would happen if the two collided and my soulmate was polyamorous!

I really just like the idea of serendipity as a concept, less the reality. I have someone that recently described me as "lovesick" for them. They could not be more wrong. There definitely is someone that I think about and wonder how, even when we are long-distance from each other, we keep living very parallel lives. It's interest.