Yup. It's frustrating. I actually struggle watching Matt Mc. movies because he reminds me soooo much of my ex. I have to stop myself from thinking about how cute he is, and how awesome.... and just accept that we were never meant to be together, or at least not in this time.
I used to have an ex like that, we were engaged and I really struggled with getting over him. It wasn't until I saw him with his "now" wife that I truly realized why he and I never worked out. I can't help but feel pure joy for him that he found someone who is better suited for him and they have a family together now. I am also glad that we never went through with the wedding because in the end, he was not my "one that got away."
Yeah, maybe there's not enough distance. It's also possible both of us had bad timing. I don't know anymore. I just don't talk to him, or facebook stalk him, or whatever. I know I'll find happiness with someone else, so it's not that big of a deal. It's mostly that I have to see him sometimes at my church, and it also stings, just a smidge.
Thanks bro (broette)! I must say, it's really nice feeling relaxed about having an online discussion. Over at that other site, any time you post, there's always some trepidation. Even though most people only read the top level responses, there's always the reality that someone might latch on and start picking on you, and then downvoting your comments to oblivion. So this was nice. It almost feels like I'm in recovery, lol.
Yup. It's frustrating. I actually struggle watching Matt Mc. movies because he reminds me soooo much of my ex. I have to stop myself from thinking about how cute he is, and how awesome.... and just accept that we were never meant to be together, or at least not in this time.
I used to have an ex like that, we were engaged and I really struggled with getting over him. It wasn't until I saw him with his "now" wife that I truly realized why he and I never worked out. I can't help but feel pure joy for him that he found someone who is better suited for him and they have a family together now. I am also glad that we never went through with the wedding because in the end, he was not my "one that got away."
Yeah, maybe there's not enough distance. It's also possible both of us had bad timing. I don't know anymore. I just don't talk to him, or facebook stalk him, or whatever. I know I'll find happiness with someone else, so it's not that big of a deal. It's mostly that I have to see him sometimes at my church, and it also stings, just a smidge.
positive vibes sent your way
Thanks bro (broette)! I must say, it's really nice feeling relaxed about having an online discussion. Over at that other site, any time you post, there's always some trepidation. Even though most people only read the top level responses, there's always the reality that someone might latch on and start picking on you, and then downvoting your comments to oblivion. So this was nice. It almost feels like I'm in recovery, lol.
this broette is happy to be of service and I hope we can keep this site as positive as possible. :)