You'll get a lot of pressure about that choice but you stay strong! It's a valid choice, it's not selfish (no more than reasons to have them), it's not anyone else's business but you and your partner's in the end.
And if you ever changed your mind you're absolutely allowed to, don't let any of those bastards give you that smug git grin "oh ho i told you you would change your mind!" just punch them right in the face and stop associating with them.
You'll get a lot of pressure about that choice but you stay strong! It's a valid choice, it's not selfish (no more than reasons to have them), it's not anyone else's business but you and your partner's in the end.
And if you ever changed your mind you're absolutely allowed to, don't let any of those bastards give you that smug git grin "oh ho i told you you would change your mind!" just punch them right in the face and stop associating with them.