100% agree with NinjaKlaus who said it so well. The whole situation has SUCH a bad double standard. The first thought I had was, ok, how did this get found out? I read the article and it turned out that one of the dads saw the stuff online, and I agree with NinaKlaus that if they are expelling the kids of the woman on OnlyFans (and the kids didn't do anything wrong!), then they should DEFINITELY be expelling the kids of the man who found it. It's not like the man would have accidentally stumbled upon it while researching how to fix the dishwasher or whatever.
This whole thing is so much a double standard, and I hate it that the mom has to defend herself while apparently no-one is asking questions of the dad who found the material. Sure, if the school is private and has special code of ethics, fine, but the kids didn't do anything wrong, and if they do still want to punish the parents by expelling the kids, then the dad who found it should be punished too. Frankly, I wouldn't want to send my kids to a school where such a double standard is viewed as OK, where the mom has to defend herself but the guy who found it doesn't. I understand having a strict code of ethics, fine, but in that case apply it equally across the board. That said, we don't know all the details - maybe the school took action against him too, but in any case they didn't mention it one way or another in the article.