• oystein
    +2

    I saw them. It's still a weird thing to do, though. In dating, people have to constantly face their own lowered self worth (due to rejection) and I think personally the best thing is to not say anything except for "It doesn't work for me", elaborating on why it doesn't work can make you seem shallow even though it's central part of how you get attracted to other people. Sometimes it's better to shut up if you don't want other people's opinions of you lowered. I'm not saying it should be like this, but that is how it is, unfortunately.