• NotWearingPants
    +5

    If you want to be heard, go quieter, not louder. I learned that from a menacing DI in basic training, if you have to put in a little effort to actually listen, the point gets through.

    • Appaloosa
      +5

      WUT?

      • NotWearingPants
        +7

        IT'S HARDER TO TUNE SOMEONE OUT IF YOU HAVE TO PUT EFFORT INTO HEARING WHAT THEY ARE SAYING. =)

        • Appaloosa
          +14

          OK, FINE. YOU DON"T HAVE TO YELL!