It's a shame that gender matters so much to some even just in a username. It is super frustrating when people treat you like a child that needs guidance just because you're a women, and it's even more depressing that that's one of the less hurtful behaviors you can encounter trying to participate online. If you'd like to make a snap linking to some of the studies you mentioned about online gendering I, and I'm sure others, would be interested in reading them. It's a fascinating and important subject.

I'm also very ranty and outspoken IRL, and I know exactly what you're saying about it just being exhausting online. It had gotten to the point where I would rather not participate, and I was thinking it would be the same here on Snapzu, but somehow I've come out of my shell. I think the level of discourse is much more manageable here, at least for now. I considered identifying as male as well, but I then I thought if I can't participate in a space as a woman and still be respected, do I really want to be there at all? IDK. Thankfully, it hasn't been an issue.

I'm very glad to have you here and that you're comfortable speaking your mind. I hope you stick around! :)