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  • folkrav
    +7

    Not specifically the 90's... but being born in 1990, I would say being a kid. Jesus Christ has life turned upside down since I've been a kid. Nothing is like it was back then, my family just spread apart (everyone lived pretty close to each other back then, 30 minutes radius!), my parents got a divorce, and some things hit pretty hard. Struggled with depressive tendencies since then.

    I'm pretty happy now though. Living a pretty good life, and I have good and motivating plans for the next years.

    • Autumnal
      +5

      You get it again. I'm in my mid thirties and we have a little boy, and it's like getting your childhood back.

      • folkrav
        +3

        Those are some of the plans I was talking about. I've been with my fiancée for over 6 years and we're (finally) moving in together next summer - finally done with full-time studies after that. There are already speaks of children in the years after that, and I can't be more excited about it. I love kids, and I think I could be a good father to those child!

        • Autumnal
          +5

          Heyyyy congrats! The first 6 months you get no sleep, but it's so giddy joyous(and exhausting) that you don't get to fret about it much, but it's so, so rewarding. Our son just started saying "maMA?" and it melts my wife every time she hears it.

          • folkrav
            +3

            Congrats to you and your wife :)