The biggest thing for me is probably my body: to eat anything I ever want. It would be so nice to have a great body with little effort. I love ice cream so much and try to stay healthy, but it seems like I can't get ahead. I am in a normal weight range for my height and gender. I have always been on the upper percentage of that unfortunately since I can't beat my ice cream addiction. I am not overweight like I was a year ago (went from 185 lbs to 145), but I wish so badly I can have a nice body like my partner. They and others seem to get away with eating anything. They also seem to have things so easy on exercise in that minimal efforts on their part has great results. Or that they naturally are just faster or stronger. I have horrible running endurance and have to wear those dorky things on my knees. I still try to work out daily though for at least half an hour when I do weights and then an hour for cardio. I watch what I eat during the day, but when I get home to relax post-workout, it gets challenging. I would love to have a nice supper from a restaurant or a pint of ice cream or whatever, however it is how I get fat so I try to avoid those (and fail sometimes on teh weekends). I wish so badly that I can eat anything I want and can run or lift like it's nothing.

While there are exceptions to this in some places/people, I am not a fan of fraternities and sororities. I initially assume a few things about someone based on my experiences with the people from them. It seems like they are a popularity contest overall. They also seem to have had a few bullies or in general are stuck up or shallow in some other way since it's paying for friendship. I know what they are supposed to symbolize, but it doesn't seem to stay true to its roots too often these days. Often the people who were in fraternities and sororities cheated in classes which was annoying to those of us who studied.

Mind you, I've met a handful of people who went to these who turned out to be okay, but it sounds like it came down to their school and chapter culture that made up their organization. I'm willing to give people a fair chance if they seem nice or independent though.