Totally understood... I have to ask, though... what is the tribe for women you mentioned?
The porn-for-women one? /t/hotmencave - very new and more difficult to find content for than I'd imagined, but I'm working on it! I clarified with the chief of that tribe and it seems to be focused more on porn for non-lesbians (hence the 'men' part) so porn-for-straight-ish-women is probably the better term for it.