I know, which it really shouldn't be that way in an ideal world at all, but this isn't an ideal world. I think what makes people so upset is that this kind of behavior happens disproportionately to women online, and then it seems like they're getting blamed for the consequences, even though I'm sure men are sending equal if not many more dick pics every day (and a lot of those are unsolicited too!) But at least for people like me, I say "don't take nude pictures" not with undertones of judgement, but rather just trying to give safety advise. And online stalking and harassment happens for tons of reasons too beyond sexual, and it's gonna be a while before we can find a way to properly deal with that, so just be fucking careful in general.

But otherwise, express your sexuality any way you damn well please.