Looking at this discussion from an outside perspective, all @MAGISTERLUDI said was [marriage is a] "religious institution that is held sacred". Nowhere did he state anything else, only that he believes marriage to be a religious sacrament, and that the government could have used alternative options.
I don't see this discussion going anywhere from either of you, as @MAGISTERLUDI is simply claiming he has directly stated his feelings (which he definitely has), and @AdelleChattre, you keep bringing more ideas into the discussion than he has spoken about.
@MAGISTERLUDI has not "hidden behind question marks", he is simply not going along with the extra arguments you are making.
Hey. Nice to meet you, and thanks for the caution. I would agree the discussion was going nowhere, had there been one. This series of one-sided comments and evasions can't pass for that. I'd like to apologize if you didn't like my tone, and for you to step in this way, I assume you didn't. The magister may've stated his belief, and I assume he has, but if you look closely you'll find that's not the way it's put. Anyone could state their feelings, no skin off my nose. Look again, though, and you'll find something more insidious than that.
Yes, that commenter hides behind question marks, the way a chess player may open with a pawn. In this game. accusations move side to side. retrenchments move diagonally; diversions and evasions move wherever he'd like. As often, I think, the magister hides behind his “questions” to avoid seeing any immediate consequences of his position. You've said that I'm bringing ideas into the discussion. Yeah, the direct implications of his statements.
In case you got the wrong impression, this is not a first encounter. All in good fun, though. He doesn't throw firecrackers like that into the room without expecting a result.
Spar, I'm not too familiar with magister, but Adelle has been here for a while now. she rarely comments, but civil rights, specifically gay rights appears to be something of her 'pet issue' and when there is an article regarding gay rights, you can count on her commenting on it. Everyone has pet issues that they are more passionate about.
Also, I don't really know the history between them on this issue. That said, I don't like the tone from either of them in this discussion/argument. If I were their parent, I would physically separate them to insure that this doesn't continue.
You've said that I'm bringing ideas into the discussion. Yeah, the direct implications of his statements.
Yeah, that's definitely a fair point (and one I do not disagree with). If you are commenting on a discussion forum, you need to be ready to discuss your views. The fact that this discussion is, as you said, "not a first encounter" removes the concern I had initially.
Looking at this discussion from an outside perspective, all @MAGISTERLUDI said was [marriage is a] "religious institution that is held sacred". Nowhere did he state anything else, only that he believes marriage to be a religious sacrament, and that the government could have used alternative options.
I don't see this discussion going anywhere from either of you, as @MAGISTERLUDI is simply claiming he has directly stated his feelings (which he definitely has), and @AdelleChattre, you keep bringing more ideas into the discussion than he has spoken about.
@MAGISTERLUDI has not "hidden behind question marks", he is simply not going along with the extra arguments you are making.
Hey. Nice to meet you, and thanks for the caution. I would agree the discussion was going nowhere, had there been one. This series of one-sided comments and evasions can't pass for that. I'd like to apologize if you didn't like my tone, and for you to step in this way, I assume you didn't. The magister may've stated his belief, and I assume he has, but if you look closely you'll find that's not the way it's put. Anyone could state their feelings, no skin off my nose. Look again, though, and you'll find something more insidious than that.
Yes, that commenter hides behind question marks, the way a chess player may open with a pawn. In this game. accusations move side to side. retrenchments move diagonally; diversions and evasions move wherever he'd like. As often, I think, the magister hides behind his “questions” to avoid seeing any immediate consequences of his position. You've said that I'm bringing ideas into the discussion. Yeah, the direct implications of his statements.
In case you got the wrong impression, this is not a first encounter. All in good fun, though. He doesn't throw firecrackers like that into the room without expecting a result.
Spar, I'm not too familiar with magister, but Adelle has been here for a while now. she rarely comments, but civil rights, specifically gay rights appears to be something of her 'pet issue' and when there is an article regarding gay rights, you can count on her commenting on it. Everyone has pet issues that they are more passionate about.
Also, I don't really know the history between them on this issue. That said, I don't like the tone from either of them in this discussion/argument. If I were their parent, I would physically separate them to insure that this doesn't continue.
Thanks for the response and understanding.
Yeah, that's definitely a fair point (and one I do not disagree with). If you are commenting on a discussion forum, you need to be ready to discuss your views. The fact that this discussion is, as you said, "not a first encounter" removes the concern I had initially.